Dec
27
2009

Are You Shovel Ready? A Simple Resolution for 2010

 

Winter made quite an introduction in Virginia last week.  Officially, it was still the Fall season when 16 inches of snow hit most of the Commonwealth.  For perspective, that's more than the average amount of snow we receive annually in this part of the country.

So there I was driving home Friday night from work in the heavy snowfall.  I almost made it home.  Made it within one mile to be exact.  I lost control of my car and slid into a snow drift. 

I tried hopelessly to back out (my front wheel drive Pontiac does dig itself deeper into the snow quite successfully, I should add).

Thankfully, another car approached as I stepped outside my car.  Help at last to the genius who wore dress slacks and shoes to the office that day and was already standing ankle deep in the snow.

The other car slowed down. But only to pass me and keep going.  Must have been in a hurry.

Another car approached. This one flew by.  Must have really been in a hurry I justified.

This went on for awhile as I contemplated leaving my car and walking the final mile home. I started to wonder...Do people even notice when someone is in need anymore?  Or do they notice and no longer care?

I questioned what would I do in the situation. Have I too stopped paying attention? The unforgettable story about the subway violinist in DC I recently discovered was striking me in the cold winter night.

Finally, two Good Samaritans stopped their vehicles. I was quickly rescued and was able to glide my vehicle safely home (the power steering went out). For them, I sensed there was never a moment of hesitation on their part to help someone in need.

Three nights (and 12 more inches of snow) later, I noticed a driver in the same predicament. Her car had drifted off the road and was stuck. The loud noise of spinning wheels on ice echoed in the wind.

Where was anyone to help?  I'm sure the noise could be heard a mile away in the neighborhood.

I grabbed my shovel and did exactly what the other two strangers had done for me. I chipped away at the ice and pushed her vehicle out of the snow pile.

I wonder if I would have been there to help had I had not just gone through the same experience?

As I start the New Year, I have made it a resolution to not lose focus on those in need. To not hesitate when I can help. To recognize there is a reason I am there at that moment.

I will go through each day of the year asking myself this question...

Am I shovel ready?

I encourage you to do the same. You will make a difference in your career and in your community in 2010 simply by paying it forward each day.

 

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   5 Comments
George Vacca, Jr. said on Dec 29,2009 at 11:05:05 AM
Great Idea!
Its certainly something to keep in mind
John Cario said on Dec 29,2009 at 12:40:17 PM
Way to go ! I recently stopped for a similar situation (was it you?) after our snow in Richmond. Many cars passed, but another stopped with me to assist. We were unable to push the car out of snow bank, but we hooked up a strap and pulled him out. Yes - Pay it forward, it could be one of our kids or mom's needing help some day.
Matt said on Dec 29,2009 at 3:13:05 PM
...i hate to see it, but that's just Northern VA ---- maybe the entire east coast.

Most people in northern va are self involved and care little for other people and their troubles...

just my opinion.
Mary said on Dec 29,2009 at 7:28:42 PM
This is so true today....too many people continue on their way, too afraid to stop. After moving to Ontario from Kentucky, this is something I noticed in the Canadians. They're always ready to stop and help push someone out of a snowbank...especially the further north you go. Why are so many of us so scared when we can plainly see that the person is in true trouble? Great post!
John D. Watt said on Jan 5,2010 at 9:17:49 AM
Now that Richmond's "huge" snowdrifts have dissipated, I'm touched by the symbolism of your story. What does our hesitancy to reach out suggest about our own insecurity? Thanks for sharing, Brent!
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